Sadly, all of our institutions and traditions are failing and under attack. Marriage because of our courts has been reduced to prostitution. How can a man enter into a contract in which the other party is rewarded for breeching that contract?
Marriage has become the modern slavery for and of men. There are no upsides for men in marriage.
Women do not enter into matrimony with honorable intentions. Most plan their “escape” and the booty they make off by spoiling the man! Before the engagement!
In contrast most prostitutes engage honorably. They specify the limits of the relationship and make. Well, not ‘no false promises’ but far fewer false promises than females entering marriage in order to exploit a man.
Then there is the What’s Your Price website. It’s almost most honorable that courting and marriage. Yet, it is also distasteful to many.
Any way you look at it females are over valuing themselves and undervaluing men and family! Most females think of “love” in terms of a weekly allowance for beauty salons, spas, nails, pedicures, hair coloring and the like.
When asked almost all women today will say that “love” looks like a weekly allowance and a lifestyle and with nary a mention of children, family, home. Since a woman will take half or more away from a man when she leaves, why bother with a state marriage license which requires so much in resources to dissolve? Especially when women file for divorce so readily because they think they can do “better” going out there again on the marital market?
The fact is, they can’t do better. Most do far, far worse. And the wake up call is real!
The website What’s Your Price has limitations. There is no way to communicate and clear things up as to what is expected and wanted. So, WYP gets gamey as well. But there are limits to the risk one takes.
Many young girls on WYP will toss out the maximum $500 offer for a date not realizing that the website collects a 20% commission. Plus, considering that far less than half of all date transactions fall through that $100 commission kicks up the true cost for that one date to more than $700. And you haven’t even gotten out of the door, paid for any gifts or any meals and drinks and whatever else one wants to do for the date.
Sorry girls, not one of you has anything to offer me that garners that much value! Imagine spending $1,000 on one date!
There are some girls who will meet for far less money but many of those are merely meeting in order to get a free meal and a tip. Few want to meet again. Most do not want to talk at length. All want to size a man up for what (resources) they can take from him and move on. Move on to the next target.
In California dating has become dangerous. A woman can sue for “palimony” and demand half of a man’s stuff making up all sorts of claims about marital intentions that never existed. How many dates can a man have in California with a woman before she can sue him? Upon the seventh date, which is nothing in the grand scheme of getting to know someone, she can go after his stuff.
So, the courts and feminists and our politicians and legislators have destroyed men and destroyed marriage. They’ve even destroyed children. By failing to consider the social science and doing what is best for the child and in the best interests of society, woman are automatically “awarded” custody and as a direct result we must build more penitentiaries!
So, tell me again: Why should man get married? Or even date a woman when our culture has become so unfair towards men?
Women are only beginning to see the outcomes and their losses. They can’t do better and they are so narcissistic and overvalue themselves that everything suffers–especially the children.
70% of boys reared by mother alone end up in our prisons while merely 6% of boys reared by father alone end up in prisons. Those are the stats for boys and boys only.
We don’t have the stats for girls but if we did I can assure you women might wake up and realize the damages they do and they would demand fathers take their daughters too and rear them. Why? Because more girls end up in prisons everyday as our society and culture deteriorate. This is not going to end well.
Fathers should automatically be awarded sole custody unless there is real cause not to do so. Men should be allowed to keep their assets so they may attract another wife. While these immature, narcissistic females who refuse to grow up should be allowed to walk and be free so that they might work on themselves and maybe make something good out of their lives.
I am not anti-female. I am against the abuse of men and the destruction of the family in order to satisfy selfish bitches. God bless the honorable and noble women who understand what real love looks like and value family and children and home. They are real gems. More valuable than rubies.